Connection and Boundaries
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The health and vitality of each individual is inextricably tied to the
health of his or her connections. As humans and as mammals, we seek safety and comfort in
connection with our families, our tribes and our herds. Connections are meant to be protective
and nurturing forces in our lives, especially when we are young and dependent on others
for our care.
“Having clear boundaries is like approaching a gated property and seeing there is a sign that says “no trespassing”… Having unclear boundaries is like approaching a gated property outlined with a fence that’s falling apart with missing sections and well established trails passing through it where visitors – whether welcomed or not – have routinely passed through without much thought.” @wild.willing
One of the top five reasons people give in the field of Equine Assisted Services when asked “Why Horses?” is that horses help us learn how to set boundaries. They are big. They can be dangerous. So in order to be safe around horses, we have to learn to set boundaries.
Horses help us learn about healthy boundaries. Boundaries for safety when that is what’s needed. Boundaries in relationships where the lines are blurred. And boundaries to build even the most intimate and fulfilling relationships.
We believe the use of boundaries in our work is powerful medicine – medicine that can help and heal. . . and hurt and wound, depending on how it is used.
Come join us and learn how to build healthy connections and safe boundaries!